If you want things to happen, you have to push for them. You need to have an aggressive mindset when it comes to getting things done. you need to recognize and truly realize that life is very competitive, and achieving your goals is going to require you to really tap into your competitive nature. Waiting around, being passive, and waiting for what you want to come to you is a damn fool’s mentality. It’s a lazy man’s move, and it’s a scared man’s move, and there is no amount of coaching or advice that can account for cowardice and laziness. You’re much better off making a lot of mistakes because you’re too aggressive and doing too much, as opposed to missing out on opportunities because you’re being weak and passive and disguising it as “patience”.