The fact that you are under is what makes people curious. You need to get little, disappear, and lay low from people sometimes. You can’t always be present because people will simply take your presence for granted. Even if you are incredibly consistent and are a high performing, high level member of people’s lives, at some point people will just take your consistency for granted. You have to remove yourself from the equation occasionally in order to eventually get the appreciation you deserve. Absence creates fascination and desire — use that to your advantage.