Taking a job to make a living, and expecting that to create for you a lifestyle of ANY level that you’d truly aspire to, is actually kind of a ridiculous concept. A job is there to give you (very) short term security, and to give you a platform to learn and develop some skills that you could later deploy on to your own business or creation. But always keep that in mind — taking on more responsibility, consistently, constantly, is the key, and having more ownership of your life must remain as the ultimate goal.