Carry yourself like a king and you will be treated like a king. Carry yourself like a commoner and you will be treated like a commoner. You absolutely have maximum control over how you are treated by the outside world, because people are only going to treat you the same way you treat yourself. If you’re putting 100% effort into building yourself into being the best version of yourself, others are going to notice this, they are going to recognize this, and they are going to treat you as such. If people can tell that you regard yourself as a top tier person they have no choice but to receive you as a top tier person as well.