Before you let someone else’s opinion of you affect you, first ask yourself, What are this person’s credentials? Why should you look to them for an opinion? What makes their thoughts valid when it comes to the subject of you? Did you even ask them for an opinion in the first place?? Did you give them permission to even think about you? Are they living a life you would want to live? Are they doing the things that you want to do? Do you even want anything that they have? What’s their validity??