If you want to become obsessed with anything in life, you need to become obsessed with becoming the best version of yourself that you can become. Your progression has to be your obsession. Becoming the best version of you that you can become has to be paramount for you. That has to be the singular focus. Everything else you may think about, anything else that you may have going on, you need to put that to the wayside until you’ve elevated yourself to a level that you can live with, a level that you can actually use as leverage to get the things you desire.